No Offense

Okay, so some of you may have noticed that this is the title of my actual blog profile, and if you didn't oh well, I don't really care. However, the reason I did that was because that is the subject of my very first post.
           Just last week this girl I know was over and she said to my mom, and I quote, "No offense, but that table doesn't match the room." Now, me and my mother both know that the couch doe snot match, but what we ALL know, is that we had just moved in and we don't have much furniture. We explained this to the girl, and she replied, "Well...I was just saying." WHO CARES! Sometimes you just have to keep your mouth shut. Later that day when she came into my room she looked at the colors I painted it, and told me, "No offense, but I don't liek that color." Now, in my mind, I was thinking, oh really, and who asked you? Instead, i simply replied, in a spolite a manner as i could manage, "Oh, well, guess what, that's the color I wanted, it's stayin." Anyhow, those are just two examples, she has done this soooo many times. And you know what? It's annoying, especially becaus eunless the two examples I put on here, most of the thing's she says are just plain offensive. I mean, if I had asked her of her opinion I would not care. But for anyone reading this and always uses the line "No offense ..............." STOP IT!!!  It's annoying, and it makes people just want to slap you! All no offense means is, "I just insulted you, but don't get mad" Jeeze! We're going to get mad, we may not show it, but we are! Just saying.